I have never had a man ejaculate inside of me and I was wondering what happens to it. They say what goes up must go down so I'm just wondering when he ejaculates inside of you, does it all stay up there? Does some of it come down? Are you supposed to push it out? Does it come out on its own? Are you supposed to rinse it out? If so, do you have to rinse the same night or can you wait until your morning shower? Do you do any of the above differently if you are trying to get pregnant? If you don't remove the excess cum can you get an infection? Thank you.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Dragonflymagic answered Thursday November 27 2014, 1:54 pm: Depending on the amount of fluid, some will appear and dribble out at vaginal entrance right away, you can wipe this away. The rest will dribble out slowly over time, much the same as your own natural cleansing system does daily to keep you clean and germ free inside. Even if not having sex, a woman naturally has a pale yellowish fluid end up in her panties, the result of her very own cleansing system inside her vagina working. So you do not have to do anything to remove it. The only infections you can get is if he has an STD, or if condom's used and you are allergic to rubber or latex, you might have allergic reactions, like itching and redness, or if you try to use soap inside or use douches, you kill or rinse away the good bacteria inside you that keeps things under control, leaving bad bacteria free rein to multiply and you end up with vaginitis and needing to go to Dr and get antibiotics to get rid of. I learned the hard way early on and was using douches all the time until I read about not using them at all.
So if its sex and then going to sleep, you don't need to do anything at all and just wash well in shower in morning. I use no cleansing products. But you can do something. Make sure you have clean fingers, no sharp spots on nails, and while in shower, raise leg on edge of tub and insert your ringers to swish around in a circular motion, rinse fingers and repeat a second or third time. That odor of having had sex, will be rinsed away. I don't do this routinely, only when I pick up that I am smelling stronger or a bit differently than usual.
If having sex and then planning on being upright and going on with your day, you can go use to potty and bear down to pee and some extra cum will flow out and be wiped away. Then use a panty liner to absorb the rest that slowly trickles out over the rest of the day. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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