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Am i asking for too much :(?
Ok today this guy messaged me telling me that this other guy was gossiping about me saying that I will "never date anyone" and that I friendzone every guy that gets close to me. Which isn't true im just the type of girl that isn't particulary easy and because of the immature guys in my school im not in a rush to date them. I don't throw myself at boys and I don't try to get attention by wearing skin tight clothes and showing off my goods like other girls do. Its just not me. I have had guys hit on me but I never was interested because they were either immature, players, saw them as a friend or they had recently broke up with one of my close girl friends. Im not desperate but I would date someone. Its just I want a mature, respectful,guy that cares about his grades Is that too much to ask? The guy I actually liked was all those things but he is a rude person and he talked about me as well even when he barely knew me saying he "didn't get me" or I was "odd" which hurt. a lot. Now this guy keeps on kiking me(he's a freshmen)asking me all these questions and making comments like "I don't seem like I like anyone in the school" or "I friendzone everyone" or asking me why im not dating any of my guy friends as if he is mad or something. Im kind to people at school and I tend to have people come to me whenever they are going through something I try to help them out (just like you guys) im not popular but I have friends (guys mostly but girls too) what exactly is wrong being friends with people instead of trying to make a boyfriend out of everyone you meet? Ive been called gay by boys and kind of ridiculed for not having one boyfriend yet. Im not self centered at all I just have self respect to not be whoring around and talking about sex all the time. I have crushes and whatever but im not totally boy crazy and drool over every cute boy in my school like some of my friends do. All of my friends have been in relationships so I guess im the oddball out of all of them. People get so caught up with me dating someone that they offer to hook me up with guys that they know. I just don't understand why everyone cares so much about it. Its like im wrong for being this way. Another factor would also be my insecurity issues. I don't feel like im pretty or good looking despite what others says. I just think so low about myself, but i don't tell anyone because i don't want the attention and compliments that I would have a hard time accepting. Every time someone does I think people compliment me for my own benefit or when they hit on me they have no one else to hit on so they hit on me. How can I help people understand me and how can I deal with all of this criticism? Im a sophomore in highschool btw.
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Hi sweetie!
Let's start from the top.
Youre a sophmore in high school
And boys around your age,are still imature and will mature much later than girls do!
Its just the circle of life
You may wonder why women date men who are at least 3 years older,or much older.That is because of the maturity level.
See,men don't usually understand anything about girls,what they feel,or start feeling about girls,is the raging hormones that come hopping along at their age.Their minds are filled with curiosity about girls. And being with someone much older will benefit you down the road
There is nothing wrong with being single!! In fact,I applaud you for being smart and not being caught up to be ''IN'' just because ''Everyone else is doing it,everyone else has a boyfriend/girlfriend''
Let me ask you about these punks that pick on you,how much you want to guess that many of them may be single.They have their insecurities too dahling.
In fact,in high school,its in a stage of transitioning from teen to adult,and people usually spend the time getting to know who they are and thinking about their futures
So shame on those people making fun
This freshman,let's call him Sir Dork,has no right harrassing you,what's it to him whether you have a boyfriend or not? Pff! Does he have a girlfriend? Chances are he dont have one!
That also calls for people who pick on you
You are very smart for wanting someone who can respect and love you back and fulfill needs for you as a human being.
Waiting is always worth the wait.
So don;t feel insecure,you have no need to be
Keep standing your ground,and of any more harrassing goes on,talk to a school counselor and the principal,often,picking on someone,can lead to bullying,and then things can get much worse! Be blessed!
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