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my boyfriend is addicted to sex
My boyfriend and I have been dating for four years. He is 23 and I'm 21. From the time we began dating, all he loves to do is have sex. Every time we see each other he pushes to have sex, sometimes in public places. I am forced to have sex around 3 to 4 times when I'm with him, he doesn't force himself on me, I suppose I feel guilty telling him no. Even when I do, he asks if he doesn't do it for me or if I want somebody else. I love him very much and I would just like to sit down with him without him touching me all the time. What do I do?
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There is such a thing as being addicted to sex. For a 23 year old male to want sex as much as you say he does I'm not sure if he is addicted to sex or just plain horny. Men his age do have an overactive libido.
I understand how his overactive sex drive can make you feel. Probably somewhat as a vessel of relief for his needs rather than someone that actually loves you. If this is how you feel it is understandable.
Before you write off a four year relationship I suggest you talk with him and ask him if he would agree to visiting a couple of doctors with him. You have this conversation with him where sex cannot happen and you start by telling him how much you love him.
You tell him how his over active sex makes you feel and you need to know if he is addicted to sex or just plain horny. To find out if he is addicted to sex requires seeing his family doctor for a complete physical and then a Doctor of psychology who specializes in sexual dysfunctions, a sex therapist. Tell him you will be with him all the way through this but you cannot be just a vessel for his sexual relief any longer. You want and need more from a relationship. You tell him if he loves you he will do this for you.
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