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how to get a guy without talking.


Question Posted Friday September 12 2014, 7:12 pm

i like a guy for awhile, one year, how can i make him give his attention to me when he sees me?


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Matt answered Wednesday September 17 2014, 6:51 pm:
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Dragonflymagic answered Friday September 12 2014, 8:27 pm:
It's called free will for a reason. There is no magic way to Make a person do your will so to speak, to do what you want.
If you want to catch his attention, just be yourself, don't pretend to be someone or something else, and start conversation with him.
You didn't say how you know him, through school, work, is he part of a group of friends you hang out with and he's someone buddy but you're never talked? How much opportunity has he had to see you and be around you? What signs if any are there that he might like you? Do you catch him looking your way often, does he smile every time he sees you or says HI often. There's other body language to look for that will confirm a current interest that you may just not be aware of yet. Check out this link for other body language.

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What is most attractive to generally most guys, is a female with self confidence, who knows what she is looking for and not afraid to ask for it. This means you need to have a clue what you are looking for in a guy beyond skin deep good looks.
The reason to talk to a guy and find out if he's single and has at least a surface level attraction is so that you can begin hanging out together and learning more about each other. In the learning a person may fall in love or find enough things they dont like and wont tolerate and back away and break up. tHATS all part of the process. But it starts with the woman being bold enough to approach him and start conversation. He will either pay attention to you or not depending on if he's attracted to you or not. You can't influence his response, but you can get a response, positive or negative. If no interest, stop dwelling on him and start looking for the next guy.

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