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what should I do?
I am 20 years old girl.I am from Bnagladesh. 2
years ago I met a boy on facebook.He was from
the another city of my country.I never add
unknown people. Actually I was searching
someone from his company. And I sent friend
request to him. But after chatting I came to
know that he was not the one. I decided to
remove him. But from his old status I came to
know that he lost his mother last year. I really
felt bad. And decided not to remove him. We
became friends. We used to chat for long time.
He shared a lot of things with me so did I. He
was a nice boy. He cared for me. I forgot to take
my medicine. He asked me everyday that I took
my medicine or not. He asked my opinion about
his business card. I mean he gave me priorities.
But after 2 months don't know what happened he
started to change. He didn't reply me back like
before. I didn't ask why. And I started to realize
that I liked him. I felt bad about it, how I fall in
love with someone on internet!. I decided to
move on and not to talk to him anymore. But
that time it seemed very difficult to me. I
decided to remove him. One night I knocked him
and told him something about my family and
then told him that I am going to remove him. He
said please tell me the reason. I told him and
removed him.But still I used to message him and
he replied me. That time I came to know from
other source that he hided things from me. He
didn't told me that his father got married few
days ago. He told me that he had a girlfriend for
one year but he never loved her. But I came to
know that after that he also had a girlfriend
almost for 3 years. But he didn't tell me anything
about it. After one months I added him again. He
accepted friend request and talked to me like
nothing happened. Everything became normal
again. I gave him my number. We started to chat
on whatsapp. Almost like before. It was my
birthday. I asked for gift. He asked what I want. I
told as your wish. He told me to ask for
something. I told him that you won't be able to
give me. He asked me what. I didn't want to tell
him. But he forced me and requested me to tell
what I want. I told him that I liked him seriously
and I really wanted to spent my life with him. He
told me that we didn't meet each other ever so
we shouldn't think about it. After that I didn't
knock him. After one day he knocked me and told
me that he added me on his new facebook id.In
which he refused me to add before, he told me
that this account was for his family.one day i
called him and we talked for the first time. That
day he told me about his father marriage. We
talked for 20 minutes. And he was nice. After
that we used to talk. His birthday was coming I
decided to send him a gift. I asked for his
address but refused to give it to me. But I knew
his addressed already so I sent the gift. And he
accepted it. There was his another female friend.
She also liked him. She also send him gift but
he didn't accept it. I came to know from
someone. And on his birthday he called me and
said that I am crazy. But he was happy.Every
thing was going well. One day I knocked him on
whatsapp and after sometime he replied. Like he
always does. But I felt something is wrong. Don't
know why!!! But my mind telling me that
something is wrong. I felt that he was not
replying me. Someone else was doing it. And the
person tried to insult me. I knew that he couldn't
talk to me like that. I ended the conversation. I
was so upset that he allowed someone to reply
me by his phone. After 7 days I knocked him and
asked about the matter. He told that it wasn't
he. I asked who it was. He told it was his
colleague. But he didn't tell the name. I got very
angry. He tried to explain me that it wasn't
international. But I didn't pay any heed to his
talk. I asked him how could he allowed someone
to message me. He said that his colleague
borrowed his phone for some work and I knocked
that time and she replied. She also deleted the
messages but told him what she wrote. And she
did it for fun. I was so angry. I shouted at him.
And told him not to contact me ever. At last he
also got angry and told me that I was just a
facebook friend to him nothing else and he never
thought about me.
After that I found out the girls name. She is 1
year older than him. She also proposed him. But
he said no. I contacted him again almost after 3
months. He also did. One night he called me we
talked for so long. And after next day the girl
tried to commit suicide and admited into hospital
but he didn't go to see her. When I heard about
it I really felt bad. Its been 6 months. We don't
talk like before. He doesn't reply like before. I
also ask him that if he has any problem to talk
to me he can tell me directly I won't contact him
again. But he says he has no problem to talk to
me. But still he doesn't reply every time. I also
don't knock him like before. I come to know that
the girl comes back in his life.They talk to each
other.But they are friend. He never tell me
anything about the girl ever. I found it out from
another source. I still miss him. Want to talk to
him. But when I remember about the girl I
stepped back. And didn't knock him. Don't know
what to do.Should I contact him?Should I try to
fix things? And I still think did he ever care for
me? and still does? but unable to show it or I
am just a fool??? Should I move on? Should I talk to him?
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You need to stop with this nonsense. What you are doing is stalking. Do not contact him anymore.
There is nothing for you to fix, because the two of you never had a relationship. You were never even friends. You were penpals and that is all. I doubt he ever cared for you.
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