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no fireworks girl needing more advice
So i talked to that guy and told him that i didnt feel the fireworks in our kiss. He got really upset with me sayin i led him on. Which is not the case here i was always honest to him about the way i feel and now he is mad that i am deciding what we should be after one kiss. My opinion is that i owed it to the both of us to see if it could be something more therefor i kissed him. I mean its not like it would have been better to start going on dates and risking him getting attached and me then breaking it to him that i dont feel something for him.. Right ?
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Well, that's his opinion/view that you led him on. Opinions or viewpoints of people are not always true...its just how they perceive things in life. Believe me, when I did the internet dating, I had many write me who were already pissed at what I wrote my standards were for the guy I was looking for.
What counts is that YOU know in your heart you did the right thing. And have the satisfaction of knowing that God also knows you did nothing wrong. When the intent of our heart is right, even if the end result is not so good, as in your case, you can rest assured...thats what God looks at, not whether the guy ended up upset,indifferent or grateful for the honesty. Your heart was in the right place for trying out a kiss. Dont let his view on it spoil it for you forever. I still say it's a pretty good practice to keep in mind.
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