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Crying my eyes out
ok so I realized you gave me advice before..[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
And I would like to say thank you so much for that because your right it has been a long relationship and I do some what feel what your telling me on your advice. I just don't know what to do.. One side of me really likes him but the other really doesn't and his flaws stand out a lot more than his good because I barley see him make his good stand out but deep inside I feel like I have high standards over how perfect I want him to be or act and I am aware he doesn't have to be perfect, maybe I just can't learn to love his flaws like he has told me he's done with me. I can give you examples like going to the bathrooms at wrong times and leaving me there alone and recently it happened at his family's gathering and it made me feel less comfortable around his family. He has no way if figuring out his future he expect people to, there's more but it be too much. To summarize it all he zones out throughout many things, He says all I notice is his flaws not the good in him but I don't know why I wish it wasn't that way I wish I loved him as much as I did in the beginning which I know he wishes that to but he still loves me as much as he did in the beginning
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You can keep on asking the same question over and over every few months for the rest of your life, or you can end your relationship with him and see what the rest of the world has to offer. Trust me, you can be much happier than you are right now. What you describe isn't a good relationship. He's a good guy, but he's just not right for you. Nobody's perfect and no relationship is perfect, but it can be perfect for you. This relationship isn't perfect for you. Set out to find one that is. The things that aren't perfect about him bother you. You can find someone whose imperfections are less bothersome to you. It's hard to just end a long relationship, especially when he's a good guy, but it's what you need to do. It will get worse over time. I have a feeling that no matter what I say you're going to continue to stay with him and continue coming on this site asking the same tired questions for years to come. Don't be that loser. Eventually, it will end and you'll have wasted years and years of your life on something that you knew right from the start that it wasn't quite right. Do what you've been doing or take our advice now. There's no use in asking another question about this relationship on this website if you're never going to take the advice you're asking for. End it today or for God sakes quit asking about what to do. There's a saying: "poop or get off the pot". If you're not going to break up with him quit whining about the same issues. If you can't move past these things that continue coming up, it needs to be over. You need to just do it or don't and stand true with your decision rather than continuing to complain about the same problems. Decide for good. If you can't let go of these issues immediately, the decision is made. It's been years and nothing has changed. Good luck.
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