[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Dragonflymagic answered Sunday July 27 2014, 3:57 pm: If you are a 13 yr old boy, not a male over 18, then you have to get into conversation with a girl first before you ask her out to date. I am sure it works the same no matter what ethnic background she comes from. A female Responds more favorably to a guy if asking her out isnt the first thing he says.
So the trick is to know how to start conversation with a female.
If she is with friends, listen in on the topics of their conversation but don't make it obvious if you are not part of their group. Wait until there is a topic you can add information on and approach and say, Sorry, but I overheard you wondering about . . ., or mentioning . . ." and then have your say and eventually ask if you may join them. Or if she's by herself, someone you know from a class, then approach her asking her for her opinion on the one thing you know you share, the class. Examples: "So what did you think of teacher Anderson when she said . . . or how did you do on that really big pop quiz in History yesterday. If its your favorite subject or not, make a mention of that, and ask what her favorite class is. Once you have conversation started, make sure to keep asking her things about herself in ways that are natural and don't sound like you are interrogating her.
Later in conversation, you can ask if she has a boyfriend. If not, tell her you enjoyed talking with her, pay a compliment ( obviously you're attracted to how she looks or you wouldnt be talking to her so make it a compliment on something of her character) I admire you for how studious you are. You make it seem easy. pr... I like your type of sense of humor, how you can be silly and not feel self conscious doing so. or You have great artistic talent, I admire that cus I seem to be lacking in that area. Hopefully this gives you some ideas how to get convo going. Then you say that you'd like to have time to chat again more with her. Would she like to get together with you on such day at such place after school? If she does, then once you see her at that pre arranged meeting, tell her again how much you enjoy your time with her and then ask if she'd like to date. This way is not awkward, it is natural and girls respond better this way.
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