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Really jealous
Hi. I've been dating with that guy for two weeks and until now the things are going just fine.We are in a relationship although when we first met he told me that he never was a "relationships-guy".He keeps saying that he is feeling very differently with me and that this has never happened to him till now.But I can see that he doesn't know how to face some situations in the relationship because he doesn't know how to do it.I think he starts being really jealous. For example it was a night that I was sleeping alone at my house and when he called me I probably didn't talk to him as "sweet" as he probably wanted so he got mad and started thinking that I want to end our relationship for absolutely no reason.I told him to relax and not be afraid that I will leave him because I'm not.He got a little better after that. But how can I handle things to help him not go so crazy about things?
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Sorry sweetie, but there is no way to help him. His insecurities and other relationship problems are something that come from deep inside him and are not things that outside influences can change.
Jealous tendencies and assuming the wrong thing and blaming others when its not true at all indicate that something deeper is wrong than a simple misunderstanding. I have an ex husband who was always assuming things, blaming me for things and publicly in front of strangers and family pointing the finger at me and accusing me of things. This is a subconscious tactic of a person who is trying to take the focus off their own character and get people to re-focus on others and it can become quite normal to do so even when no one else is focusing on them, just assuming the worst...negative thinking like that is an actually disorder and the refocusing attention and blaming a person, is also one part of mental disorders. I suggest you steer clear of this one.
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