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He is called left message but hasn't called me back? Feeling unsure
Thank you very much for your advice.... I got a missed call from him... He left me a voicemail.... "Hey what's up, it's me, just umm giving you a call, I don't know if you are at work or what's up.... Umm you can call me back... Just saying hey I just been umm doing my thing... Everything is pretty normal... But you know trying to get my stuff in order... So just wanted to call and say hey... And I got your messages and all that... I hope you are doing well... So... Have a good day... If anything call me let me know what's up... So I'll talk to you then... Bye" I honestly don't know what's going thru his mind about us? I did call back he didn't answer left messages... I
Was work on break called and when I got home to let him know I was free and home if he would like to call and talk.. But haven't heard back yet I know he was with his daughter... I've notice when he contacts it's when he is going to spend time with his daughters...
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There is really not much to add to what I have already said. It might be best to move on rather than wait to see what he decides to do and when he decides to do it.
You could even say so if need you want to in a voice mail or text to him. You could say something to the effect; I have told you how I feel and how I feel about you. I cannot wait forever for you to decide what you are going to with your life or to work out your problems. I've told you what I'm willing to do for you and with you. What I'm not willing to do is be strung along while you are indecisive. If you want to be with me, make a life with me decide now and be with me or I will not stand around waiting for you any longer.
This would come under the heading of tough love. There are times, and this may be one of them, when you literally have to hit someone over the head to make them realize something. Depending how he responds, if he responds, you will know just where you stand in his life and can act accordingly.
Should you take my advice and leave a message as I've written you will have an answer. Once you have sent it or left it on his voicemail you make no further effort to contact him. IF he doesn't call back that tells you what you need to know.
It is very possible, and I hope it isn't, that he is stringing you along while he is with someone else. What I am suggesting will in a manner of speaking tell you that as well.
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