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I really need help
This question is going to send you to sleep...
So, I'm 14 and there's this boy that I'm honestly so In love with and he's 13. We've been talking since December 2013 and we went out in January for 6 days then I needed it with him because he started ignoring me and it really hurt me, we used to talk so much, all the time! On snapchat and Facebook and text. Then when we split up I really wished I hadn't ended it, I missed him so much I got depressed and started cutting and stuff. Then he started talking to me again, online... Which made me happier then we ended going back out in April for only 3/4 days. He dumped me because he wasn't ready for a relationship, he asked me out though?...
And still today I really miss him 😩😖
But it's soo awkward! We've only spoken a bit in person, and never have really met up, only twice but we didn't arrange it for us we just tagged along and didn't talk to each other. I've spoke to him twice but not saying much, he's very very shy and so am I! We haven't actually hugged or made any physical contact yet... 😢
I see him every day at school but I see him a lot, still today we walk past each other and just stare for a few seconds and then he looks away to quick for me to smile or anything, I really want to be able to talk to him somehow!?
I literally cannot explain how much I love this boy, your probably going to think I just need to move on but I seriously can't! I've tried so hard soo many times, I get soo jealous when he's talking to another girl and I even stalk him on Facebook I can't help myself 😂 I can't stop thinking about him and I can't help but talk to my friends about him, I could say I'm obsessed with him!
I don't actually know if he knows I feel this way about him but I'm really struggling to tell him, we're both so shy it's almost impossible to make any contact!
Someone please help me, I have no idea what to do or say, I just really want to build our relationship stronger and even be able to go back out!
I can't talk about my feelings for him to my friends or family as I'm too embarrassed so I'm hoping for some advice on here, thanks! X
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
So if you get over him...(which is one option)
Reach the "I just want my beloved to be happy" stage. If other girls make him happy, you'll just have to accept it.
Try not to stalk him on facebook. Or if it makes you feel better, talk to him about his life. DONT PRY DONT STALK DONT BE CREEPY be natural. Don't force secrets out of him- give him advice, that way you'll become friends again.
If you want to get back together with him (another option) start a clean slate. Learn to flirt, entrance him into thinking about you that way again... but also in a new light:
LEARN SOMETHING NEW! Get a new skill- get a party trick, learn Beyoncé's single ladies dance off by heart or something- Something that will awe new guys into your life (making this boy look up again and wonder if he made a mistake. But don't lead these new guys on, that's cruel)
GET A MAKEOVER. Like a drastic one- dye your hair (Semi permanently, cus permanent is horrendously bad, and don't go some chavvy colour, youre 14. Look au natural)
Get new wardrobe, new makeup styles and nail varnish.
Try to deal with your shyness- dare yourself to be a little more forward, a little more confident.
When the time is right, you can make the first move again and get the boy back.
Good luck!
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