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What does my dream mean?


Question Posted Monday April 7 2014, 11:02 pm

So a little background on me: im the only one in my house hold who owns a gun, i cant stand my moms boy freind and cant wait till im 18 to get away from him.
My dream was were i was with my moms boyfriend alone in my house and something happend to where he went to my room and for some reason there was a handgun beside me. so i grabed it and went to my room and he had my 12 guage so i shot him in the arm with the handgun ive never seen in my life. so then i retreived my shotgun from him. i then tried to shoot him with it but it like misfired or the shell was bad or something so he started laughing and i hit him with the butt of my gun. Can anyone explain what this dream means. Oh also him and my mom have been fighting recently but i didnt know that till after i had this dream. Thanks for your help.


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ShineyStarz answered Saturday April 12 2014, 5:43 pm:
www.dreammoods.com is THE website. I have their app downloaded on my ipad which is really handy because you can still look up things even when there is no internet.

I will paste what certain things in your dreams mean according to the website:

- there is no "mother's boyfriend" so this was the closest I could find.
Stepfather
To see your stepfather in your dream symbolizes authority and protection. Consider also your waking relationship with your stepfather and how aspects of his character may be incorporated within yourself. If you do not have a stepfather in real life, then the dream may represent some unresolved issues and tension with your actual father.

- Bedroom
To dream that you are in the bedroom signifies aspects of yourself that you keep private. It is also indicative of your sexual nature and intimate relations.
To dream of your childhood bedroom indicates that a current situation or feeling has triggered a memory from your childhood that you have kept secret. Alternatively, the dream may be symbolic of a sexual awakening.

- I'm not familiar with weapons. On the site there was pistol, revolver, stun gun, shot gun, and BB gun, but I just chose gun.
Gun
To see a gun in your dream represents aggression, anger, and potential danger. You could be on the defensive about something. Or you may be dealing with issues of passiveness/aggressiveness and authority/dependence. Alternatively, a gun is a symbol of power and pride. Perhaps you are looking for shelter or protection in your dream.
If you dream that a gun fails to fire indicates that you are feeling powerless in some waking situation. Perhaps you need to attack your problems from a different approach. Alternatively, a malfunctioning gun represents sexual impotence or fear of impotence.
To dream that someone is shooting you with a gun suggests that you are experiencing some confrontation in your waking life. You feel victimized in a situation or that you are being targeted. To dream that you shoot a person with a gun denotes your aggressive feeling and hidden anger toward that particular person.

- Shotgun
To see or shoot a shotgun in your dream means that you need to better focus your energies toward your goal.

- Target
To dream that you are shooting at a target indicates that you have your sights clearly set on a goal. The dream may also be trying to motivate you along. If you missed the target, then it symbolizes missed chances, missed opportunities, or missed judgment calls.

- Laughing
To hear laughing or dream that you are laughing suggests that you need to lighten up and let go of your problems. Don't put so much pressure on yourself. Laughing is also a sign of joyous release and pleasure. If you are being laughed at, then it indicates your insecurities and fears of not being accepted.

- Hit
To dream that you hit something or someone is symbolic of unexpressed anger and aggression. You tend to keep your negative feelings inside instead of expressing them in a healthy way.



Well, sounds like you have a lot of resentment towards your mother's boyfriend. Just from my own viewpoint, your dream is saying how you might be jealous that he is taking time away from your mother and that you need to let go of your grudge and focus on something else. Or, be direct and address it with your mother about your feelings so he can either be removed from your lives or understand why him being in your life disturbs you. With the fight recently, maybe you think that he is completely at fault?

Hope this helped!

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rainhorse68 answered Tuesday April 8 2014, 3:40 pm:
Repressed anger and resentment towards mothers partner. Desire to remove him from the scene, rather than you leaving, despite stating you want to get away yourself. Coveniently appearing gun representing the wish for a convenient means to remove him appearing/becoming available to you. I should say that the wounding not killing, and misfiring stem from a mindset and opinion that you own your weapons for protection and self-defence rather than offensive purposes. You don't consider them a means to impose your will on others or punish them. Unrecognised gun (not your own gun) is a desire to isolate yourself from the act of removing him and not be held responsible for it. Not killing him probably also indicates you hold human life in high esteem. (ps...the idea that you never die yourself in a dream or kill anyone is a myth. You can literally dream anything at all). Fair snapshot of you and how you feel at the moment...or way off the mark? Hope it sheds some light whatever. Best wishes.

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