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this is related to my q. im from chile
what if she will ignore me or then stop chatting with or avoid me? I mean telling her my feelings is I think it's risky and embarrassing. I don't want to humiliate myself but I want her to know about it. But I know also that she'll never be my gf coz we are world apart. And what if she'll laugh at me coz she might think I'm stupid or sth. Please I'm desperate. Muchas gracias
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I think that there are ways you can ask without it being embarrassing. You could do many things such as hint it and see how she reacts. Tell her you enjoy talking to her or that you feel close to her enough to tell her secrets or that she is your best friend. You could even tell her you really like her and enjoy being able to talk to her. But, I gotta tell you. Nothing is without risks...I totally understand how you feel and how you don't want her to ignore you or stop talking to you. Perhaps a few days before you express your feelings you can let her know that you hope to stay friends with her for a long time and that you hope that you two will not drift apart. It is tough...the internet is so nice in bringing people together. I know people who have had success with this. Who met someone online and one moved to where the other lived. It works sometimes and other times it does not. It's important to be hopeful, but also realistic. I realize I'm not giving you a very straight answer with exactly what to say or do. That is because only you know her well enough to decide what could be best. I hoe it works out well for you :)
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