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sex first time
i am a 16 year old guy i'm gay my boyfriend is 17 we are really in love we have been talking about having sex we have given each other blow jobs a few times i want to have sex i'm a little worried it will hurt he has a big penis so i'm a nervous about having sex
does it hurt a lot? any advice?
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Apologies with the late reply to your question.
Its really good that you two are both talking about he possibility of having sex, communication is key throughout.
Its perfectly normal to be worried about having sex, eerybody always asks if it hurts, and to be perfectly honest it might just hurt the first couple times but just be sure to use plenty of lubricant and tell him to take it slow. Theres no need to rush your first time at all. Just talk about it and explore each other bodies.
Sometimes some gay men to tend to 'play around' with that area themselves, try gently massaging your anus and make sure to put lube on but see if you can insert a finger- or maybe even get your partner to do that first before penetrating you.
All in all I cant really tell you what anal sex feels like as ive never had it but you know that you're ready and want to take that step with your partner so talk about it and if its wht he wants to then go for it. Take it nice and slow and remember to communicate with him to say what feels good and what doesnt to you.
Again sorry this reply took so long but hope Ive helped you out in some way. Never hesitate to inbox if you need more advice.
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