Why do I keep having dreams about a guy I've NEVER met or seen before?!?
Question Posted Tuesday March 4 2014, 2:43 pm
Now please do not come up with that "You must have seen him before" ****, because I know I have NOT seen him in my life.
Anyway, I'm in this religion where my God helps me with all my problems. And I told Him that I've been very lonely, and then I wrote down everything I want in a boy. The first time I did this, I met the first boy. He was everything I asked for.
That night I had a dream about that exact boy. He had long, straight jet black hair. Snakebite piercings. Taller than me. Black clothing and black converse. the whole setting was white. And he was looking at something. I had a feeling we were at Walmart, and he was looking at the CD's. But I'm not completely sure.
The next dream, my dad was abusing me. And my mom was crying and begging him to stop. Then the exact same boy looked around the corner and began glaring and mumbling angrily at my dad.
The third dream, I was hanging out with this boy that I go to school with. And the boy kept glaring at him and following me everywhere I went. And I had asked for a boy who would feel the need to be with me all the time or would freak out.
Now that boy I dreamed about who goes to my school asked me to be his again. And I agreed. And after that I hadn't had dreams about the boy again. Last night, that boy was being really disrespectful to his mom, so I began having doubts on if I should be with him. And last night I had a dream where he was crying on the picnic table, and I noticed that boy I asked for sitting on the other picnic table, and could feel him staring at me. I was walking away with my English teacher as I talked about Nicholas Sparks with her. That dream was really random as you can tell.
I had dreams about the first guy before. Had asked my God for him and the dreams came. And I met him. So what do these dreams mean? Is it possible I can meet this boy since I met the first one before?
******MORE TO IT: Then I had another dream the night before last, and I was...making love with him and then we were looking at the ultrasounds. Then I woke up. Last night I was still pregnant in my dream, but I could only barely see him in the background.*******
Thing is, I have to say that you must have seen him before---AT LEAST, his face. You may not remember it, but you may have passed him on the street and subconsciously stored the image. After thinking about this perfect type so much, you began to dream about all the things you want, except... the brain cannot make up a face all on its own. So it "remembers" someone you've already sort of seen. And then adds all the extras like his snakebites and the clothing.
I dunno... if you dreamed about and met the first boy like this then its nice to imagine you CAN meet another like this again! Like I said, that face must exist somewhere near you if you subconsciously saw him...dunno about all the extras. We can only dream! [ soph0900's advice column | Ask soph0900 A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.