i'm 14 a guy and i am gay i've known for a couple of years now i haven't come out to anyone yet but i want to start looking for a boyfriend i'm not sure where to start i don't know anyone who is gay i feel lonely sometimes i want to find a boyfriend someone i can talk to and be in love how do i go about it?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? whythehellnot answered Thursday February 6 2014, 11:36 am: Feeling alone is totally normal, and you will find someone even if it seems hopeless now. Stick to your friends, and if you know they are open minded try coming out to your best friend or just one person, those types of secrets can really tear you apart.Maybe you do know people who are gay, they just haven't come out yet either, dont date the first guy who hits on you, actually wait until someone you have a legitimate interest in comes along. Know the difference between love and infatuation.Get to know them and practice light flirting and try not to come on too strong. Stay clear of internet dating, half the time those people aren't even real and they can be way meaner behind a screen. You sound like a nice guy, and Im sure someone will come along if yiy just be yourself and out yourself out there. Come out to those you trust,you never know what could happen. I am always here and always ready to talk.No judgement issued...Good Luck!! [ whythehellnot's advice column | Ask whythehellnot A Question ]
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