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What does it mean when a woman's says don't play me
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It doesnt matter who is saying it, male or female each will mean something that is a little differeent from the next person saying it. So it is best to ask for clarification as to what she meant by it. In general "Don't play with me" has some of these meanings:
Dont play with someones heart if you have no intentions for a serious relationship
Don't play mind games or lie, be straight up honest and not hide things. I'm not an idiot so dont play me like a fool.
Don't play cat and mouse with me. This is when somehow you're letting off vibes or certain signs that you get into the chase of a person like a cat does with a mouse, but your intentions in the end are one sided, only in the benefits to you, the fun, the thrill for you, not the welfare or the best for the girl.
I could post a few more. But as you can see, something is setting off the warning bells in her, whether she has good reason to sense something, or even if your words, behavior, actions have somehow, unintentionally mislead her.
This brings an initial distrust between you and she will not relax and begin to trust until you can prove by your behavior consistantly who you are at core, and that she has nothing to fear.
So to know what exactly she is concerned about, might be a good thing for you to find out if your intentions are truly pure which I believe they likely are, for if they weren't you wouldnt bother to write in here to ask.
She may be jaded by past experiences with guys and you must understand she has every right to be more careful this time around. She may not do so in the best way...just do not take personal offense to what she says, be patient if you really care about her or getting to know her and show her in time that not all guys are bad.
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