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Continued from my story
Okay, so, Phillip was the guy that picked me up from work. Zach, Kenneth's best friend is the one that did all the asking on a date for Kenneth, but then later that night Kenneth told me Zach was bull crapping. I don't really know why Kenneth would ask me if he had a chance with me in the first place if he had no interest in me. The whole store thinks I'm obsessed with Kenneth because of what ZACH did. But Kenneth knew it was all Zach, but I don't want other people to make Kenneth thin I am obsessed with him. Because I'm not. I just don't really know how to handle the situation, because I do like Kenneth and I want to still have a chance with him. What do I do? And what do you think is going on?
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If Zach and Kenneth were still much into middle school and high school shenanigans, then theres a possibility that Zach egged Kenneth on and dared him to say that to you, whether he was interested in you or not.
So the questions weren't just general questions about you but Zach was telling you that Kenneth is asking him (Zach) to ask you out for Ken cus he is too chicken too ask you out hisself?
Then Kenneth says Zach was spouting a bunch of baloney, its all bull crapping. If so, I would say you have a right to ask him if he was bull crapping too when he asked if he had a chance with you. He did that of his own free will.
If you don't like guys who play games like this at the expense of a girl, tell each one separately that you don't like guys playing silly games like this that leave you wondering. Tell them as far as their future interactions with you, they need to 'Say what they mean, and mean what they say.' Translated: Be totally honest, not misleading. When you say something, be ready to back it with action or proof. Depending on their mental capacity, you may have to translate that saying for them. 'giggles'
After that, see what they do. A person sends out signals with body language if they have an interest, so if Kenneth is looking at you a lot, does things to find a reason to be near you, within your bubble, standing next to or sitting beside you. Getting arms length away is what is meant by 'close'..its close enough to touch. Someone who doesnt like the person that close to them will subconsciously without realizing it, step back away to create space between them. If you like Kenneth enough to want to learn more about him, then get close to him to see if he stays put or moves away. If he stays put and welcomes your closeness, then it is a good idea to do innocent flirting next...all non obvious stuff but natural reasons to touch him. Like if he teases, a soft punch in his shoulder, patting his arm for emphasis while talking to him. Pretending to pick an eyelash off his cheek. Heres a link to an article about that. Good luck.
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