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What do i do part 2
You recently answered my question about wha to do with my ex. And i was wondering about how long should i leave him alone. Because ive just endured about 3 months without him. What should happen for him during the no contact period? He hasnt even texted me first for three days now since i tried the nocontact pwriod. I was planning that in the end of this week that id ask him to go to christmas in the park with me and just be on good terms and then dissapear again after that. Is that such a good idea?
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I think you're trying to make it like a game. Like talk to him, then stop, then talk again. I think it's going to do more harm to you. If you invite him to go to Christmas in the park with you then you're just going to keep falling back into the same pattern. You might even slip and tell him how you feel about him again.
I think just plain space between you guys is good for now. As of right now, he is dead set on not being with you.
You don't want to go chasing after a guy who doesn't want you. It makes you feel worthless and in his mind, you're not worth being with. It really sucks and if you keep trying to push him to get back together, it's just going to make you feel worse and make him want you less.
By asking him to go to Christmas in the park with you, he'll know you're still crazy about him. He is the one that has you wrapped around his finger. You don't want to be in that place, remember that.
So for now, don't contact him. Maybe in a month, text him and just talk normal. See how that goes then go from there.
And also don't forget when you do talk to him, don't go talking about the two of you.
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