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afraid of sex
I was raised baptist. Going to church every Sunday. I don't know if this has anything to do with it but I figured I would say it. I have come to the conclusion that I'm afraid of sex. I'm 24, still a virgin and have fooled around with guys with no problems except when it comes time to have sex. Its like I freeze and then change my mind about going through with it. Which makes me come off as a tease. Please help me find a way to get past this!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity?
You should talk to a therapist.
If you genuinely want to have sexual encounters, but are having too much anxiety to actually go through with it, that's the kind of thing we can't really unpack for you.
Maybe it's your religious background haunting you. Maybe it's anxiety rooted in another thoughts like performance fears, or other intimacy fears.
But no one here is going to be able to unpack that for you or give up a magic trick to change it. Doing some serious work with a pro is probably the best approach to solving the problem you are facing.
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