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How do you know is its orgasm?
18/f
So me and my bf have only just begun to have sex. Neither of us have had it much before before getting together.
My question is, how do you know if you have had an orgasm?! Also how do you achieve this? All I know so far is that its not been pleasurable the few times that we have had sex-I mean we were both nervous.
I know it sounds like a typical question here but I'd be greatful for anyone's advice because I'm worried it'll never be fun for us :/
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First of all I think it would be great if you both just relaxed while doing it.The fact that you're nervous probably affects it.And when you orgasm,you will know it.Its different from the others and you really feel good and totally relaxed after it.Hope it helps!
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Good question and I have the perfect video's for both of you to watch to learn about it.
A whole series of short videos on a talk about Orgasm 9 parts, by University of Oregon Health Center. Watch all of them. part 4and 5 have diagrams and actual models of both male and female parts to help explain how they work.
First one, on what is an orgasm. Then follow all the links on line for the rest.
Part 1
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Part 4 0f 9
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