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Long distance
Hi BoriquaGirl145, I was wondering if you could give me some advice or tips, basically my situation is that me and my girlfriend are both in our first year at Uni now and it's been a difficult thing to get used to after we were at the same sixth form together. Now she goes to UCA in Canterbury and stays with her nan in Sturry whereas I am studying music in Guildford so it's a long distance relationship now even though she may more closer to me after this year. I won't let long distance ruin the relationship, there is no need because we still see each other every few weeks usually. On week nights where we can't be with each other, we usually text or message one another and she has suffered and does suffer now from slight anxiety issues. She doesn't feel worthless and she sometimes feels like she can't cope. I am doing everything I can to be a comforting and understanding person about this to her, I feel like saying to her I am there for you but every time I say this she tells me to stop lying. I am asking for help because the thing is, I am there for her but I can't physically be there all the time as we are far part from eachother and things prevent us from going to see eachother. Is there anything else I should say to her because I want her to know I'm there for her to talk to, to trust in, to confide with and to be with when we get the opportunities. I don't want to say the wrong thing to her but I know I'm being there for her and I just want her to believe me
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Just keep reminding her everyday, just prove it to her by showing her next time you see her. Take her out to somewhere special and surprise her and as long as its just you two, tell her and express to her how much she means to you and how you'll always be there for her no matter what. I hope this helps!
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