Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


HURRICANE BY MS MR quoted to me


Question Posted Tuesday November 5 2013, 11:18 am

So my boyfriend sent/post lyrics to this song, and even after looking up the lyrics & what not, I still do not know if I should take this as a good or bad sign. HELP?

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Hobbies category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Music?


Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday November 5 2013, 8:44 pm:
HI hon. There may be a reason he posted the song, a message he's trying to get across, or there may be no message or signs at all he wants you to pick up on. It is a fact, maybe not as well known as should be among males and females that their thought processes are quite different.

So while you are busy trying to read something into the lyrics of the song, it may not have any hidden meaning intended. He may be simply sharing something with you, sharing a song that he likes to help you get to know more about him, some of his favorite songs, singers, actors etc...

The only way to know if there was something to look for in the first place is to ask him.

"So why'd you think to share that particular song with me the other day? Is it a favorite song or favorite group of yours? Or do the lyrics have special meaning to you?
Get him talking. Conversation, not just surface stuff like how are you, fine, whatcha doing,nuthin much is not going to help get to know each other. Asking people to share what they are thinking or feeling especially if in a relationship with them is healthy and normal, it is not prying and being nosy.

I read the lyrics of the song out of curiousity. I could give you several possibilities of what it means if it was a message he was sending. So find out why he sent it, if the words mean anything to him and if you are still confused after a good conversation with him, let me know what his responses were, and we'll take it from there.

For what it's worth, the writer of the lyrics in his chorus seems to state that he feels he is a negative creature and will be a bad influence on the girl because he sees her as pure and innocent. Or Possibly conveying a message of gratefulness, not understanding how they came to deserve such a wonderful person in their life but being thankful for them just the same.

[ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question
]


More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: if i split sperms outside without using a condom, will she get pregnant?
Next Question >>> Why do I have this recurring dream of a baby boy?

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker