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Should I start talking to someone I ended things with for a friend's sake?
So we ended things sometime back, but we both are friends with someone, say K. We three were extremely close to each other. Now we broke up before K's birthday. So K's birthday was not celebrated by us. I just wanted advice on this. So should I start talking to this guy once I'm over him, so we can plan something out for K's birthday next year? Like a trip or something? Some background info: I was really in love with this guy, while he wasn't. And now he is embarrassed about how he hurt me, but I am more mature about the whole situation and want to put it behind us. And so I want to give him space, before I propose something.
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If you want to plan K's birthday with him, then go ahead. But as long as you're over him and by talking to him, you won't end up having feelings for him again. Make sure you know yourself well and how you feel.
In my opinion, you both can be civil about the whole thing. You guys don't need to talk a lot, or really even have a lot of contact with each other, only when it involves your mutual friend.
It's good for things not to be awkward, but you don't have to be buddy buddy with him.
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