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Friends with benefits
You give really good advice. I need some help.
How do you know when your friends with benefit partner might be developing feelings for you?
I just want to be sure when to stop and have a conversation about it if something comes up.
What are the signs?
Thank you!
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It's difficult to see signals. If your sensing something you have to ask. Or if you develope the feelings first, say, "Hey, I know we promised there'd be no attachments or expectations and I am starting to develope feelings for you and wanting to pursue those feelings with you. So to be fair, I wanted to let you know. That way we can decide if it's best to break up. Or if you feel the same, then we continue the relationship at another level. Yes...Its scary to come out and confess but honesty like that has never freaked out a guy especially if you keep control and dont go begging him to love you or something like that.
Its easy to keep signs of developing feelings hidden when already romantic and sex partners. Some guys dont show much affection signals, in touch and kisses and doing simple little unasked for favors for you, they only show the attention in the bedroom. I would have to say for me, its always been my female inner sensing ability which all females have, you know...that special radar guys joke about, thats what lets me know when something may have changed.
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