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I NEED HELP TO MAKE DESICION
Yes i understand your point.but tell me one thing please, a girl who tell me a series of lie since 2years,about her real identity,background,past relation.. How to i trust her again ,will she be a good wife!she now apolize for her mistakes and lying.but she just ruined me. Please suggest me.may i trust her or not!
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Sorry it took me so long to respond but the server just put this in my in box.
I have given you the best advice I can. Given the circumstances I think she should be given the benefit of the doubt here. I understand a bit of your culture and given what I know I can understand why she did as she did. I can also understand how you feel.
What I cannot do is tell you what to do. That is something you and only you can decide. what I will tell you is this. If you decide to forgive her and move on and marry her. Do not hold this over her. Do not make demands upon her or make her make concessions in order to marry. This is no way to start a marriage and it will doom you marriage to failure just as holding this over her will.
She did what she did because of your culture. I won't say your culture is wrong but it is out of step with most of the western world and some parts of your own country. Take all this into consideration then make a decision. Whatever you decide do not condemn her for her transgression as it was a survival instinct that forced this one her.
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