I feel like I'm a pretty interesting person, with a big personality. I always kind of have been, but once or twice I've lost sight of who I was. I got into this habit of picking things other people did up, because I wanted to fit with them, and more than once I couldn't tell you what made me... me.
One day, I sat down and just wrote down everything I loved about my big personality, what really made me myself. Then I hung that list on my bathroom mirror to look at everyday. I made sure to exemplify everything on that list everyday, including things I forgot I did... like my love of cussing. I really love the f-word... and I'd stopped saying it because someone told me that it was un-lady-like.
You are who you are, and no one can take that away from you, except you. Sometimes we all just need to be reminded of that.
So make yourself a list of everything that makes you the person you are... and just try to be that person the best you can. Everything else will fall in line and your paranoia will fade. [ pseudophun's advice column | Ask pseudophun A Question ]
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