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I feel so confused by him. I don't even know what we are anymore.
Hi, I'm a fourteen-year-old girl. So a little over a year ago, I met this guy. We were in class together this past school year. He and I just really clicked. We both really just understood each other, and we have a lot in common. It got to the point where I ended up liking him. As for him, I don't know how he felt. We've never really gone out, but we have gone places together. The problem is that he's eighteen soon, and I guess whatever we thought we might have would be illegal. He said he wasn't "breaking up" with me (which means I guess he thought we were dating?) , but he just wanted to remind me of the fact that he's nearly four years older than me. I guess that he liked me though, or else he wouldn't have said that. He was really nice about it, too.We haven't kissed or anything like that. So now that just leaves me. I don't even know what we are/were. I want to still be friends with him, but I guess we still have a thing for each other. I know he still cares about me because he's not a jerk.I just don't know how to deal with this, I've been just crying for the last hour and a half because I feel crushed. He's the only person I have left. I don't have any other real friends. He was the only person I would talk to, and now I feel like I don't have him either. Please help?!
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I think you should just straight up ask him what you guys are. I mean you guys are good friends right? You should be able to be honest with him.
So just ask him what exactly they are because when he said, "breaking up with you." You didn't know what you guys are because you aren't exactly dating.
If he truly is a good friend, you won't lose him. You guys obviously can't date because of the age difference but he probably does have some feelings for you, he's probably just making sure that you both are friends.
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