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anal sex and prejeculation


Question Posted Saturday July 20 2013, 3:18 am

i am a virgin , 19 yrs old , i and my boyfriend tried anal sex for the first time without protection (but it dint workout in the end ) . he applied some oil near my anal hole for the penetration to be easier . and when he tried , his penis got slipped because of the oil and it touched my vagina. he did not release sperms during that time but he was having the preejaculation fluid on his penis when it slipped and touched my vagina. this happened a few times , i washed it off after 15 mins and urinated also . are there any chances of me getting pregnant because of his penis touching my vagina a few time ? and i came to know that an emergency contraceptive pill has to be taken within 72 hours and i took it on the 70th hour . will it be effective . will that ipill cause any delay in my periods ? i heard that there will be side effects like nausea , lower abdomen pain , but i dint get any of them after taking that pill .though we dint have sex , i am afraid , plz help me , thanku

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adviceman49 answered Saturday July 20 2013, 10:17 am:
First: I do not think you are pregnant. Yes there is sperm in the pre-ejaculation fluid. Unless his penis entered your vagina it is very unlikely that the sperm made its way inside you. The plan B pill as it is called is most effective if taken within 48 to 72 hours after sex but has also been known to be effective for up to a week.

The stress over whether you are or you are not pregnant is enough to delay your period by itself. Stress is the number one cause of missed periods. To lower your anxiety purchase a home pregnancy test kit and follow the manufacturer's directions as to how soon after the sexual contact to use it and the right time to use it.

If you're concerned with mom finding it. Find the one you want at the pharmacy read the directions and then purchase it the day before you can use it. Keep it in your purse. Use the kit, repackage it after the negative results are given, which I believe you will get, and dispose of it away from home.

You are 19 now fully an adult under the law. You are entitled to a sex life if and when you want one. You are and have been for some time entitled to get birth control pills. Even if you are still on your parents health insurance. As an adult even if you are in school and on your parent health insurance they no longer can see your medical records or have any knowledge of your visits to or treatments by a medical doctor or dentist without your expressed written permission. This is covered under a federal law known as HIPPA. HIPPA is: The Health Information Personal Protection Act.

This means no one can know anything about your personal health or medical information than what you allow them to know. So if you want birth control medication you can have it. Your parents health insurance will pay for the doctors visit and the medication if they have prescription benefits.

Your parents will never know why you visited your doctor and the pharmacist cannot tell them what medications have been dispensed to you either. My advice is if you are going to experiment with sex in this manner that you get birth control medication.

Below is some information on how to have anal sex. It is a beginners guide. I included it incase you want to try again. Done properly anal sex can be very enjoyable for both partners. Unlike vaginal sex it does have a learning curve to it to be enjoyable or it will be very painful.

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