Last night I had my second or third dream about this boy. He has jet black hair, kind of long at the back. He has bangs straight across. Also he has chocolate brown eyes. He looks about fifteen or sixteen. And he's so damn cute! When we were together, he kept giving me jelly beans. And he gave me a note asking "Do you want to just be friends or do you want to go out?" All of a sudden we're up town and I pick him over my (so called) boyfriend. Then I woke up. He is the EXACT same boy from my previous dreams. Does this mean he's "The One"? Does this mean I'll meet him? If so, where?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Dragonflymagic answered Saturday July 6 2013, 3:43 pm: Dreams come from your subconscious.
Sometimes it is an acting of the hopes and dreams you have for your self.
Other times, your subconscious is who receives messages from God, your angels or guides if you believe in that. Take the dreams of Joseph and others dreams he was able to interpret in bible stories. He was foreseeing a famine that would occur. If he had not acted in organizing the storing up of the extra plenty ahead of time for the 7 yrs of famine, many would have died from starvation.
All of us when young dream of meeting our prince charming. Reality is that not many guys will turn out to best the best choice for us.
You did say that in the dream you choose him over a so-called boyfriend.
All I can say is that your subconscious mind is sensing the current boyfriend is not right for you. You can't stop dating altogether waiting for someone that looks exactly like him to come along.
If you have dreams the same person again and again, there could be a significance, a message that you are being given. That you are not just to settle for less when you get to the time and place of being old enough/ready for long term relationship or marriage. This may be a message that the perfect guy is out there, someone who will be your soulmate. But you may not meet him for quite some time. You may meet him next month or not meet him until late 20's for example. There's no way to know. Plus he may not look like that. In your dream, you had to be shown someone who would appeal to you right now where you're at. If you saw a 30 yr old guy and you're 15, that would be freaky. No one can know where you will meet so just go on with life as normal. If you are meant to meet and living in different states and towns, then your angels will be working to bring the situations along where one of you needs to move. I have heard stories (several) of hypnotists who take people back to before they were born and the two souls who were supposed to meet and marry were told what would happen so that they would know its the one. Since we come into this world with no knowledge of any such thing, it has to be something in your subsconcious mind that lays waiting. A guys says a certain phrase to you. Like: I love dogs, I like yours, my favorite I have one just like him. Your conscious mind thinks oh how nice, a dog lover, your subconscious mind screams at you...get his number, get it and ask if you can walk your dogs together sometime. And that is all it takes. You have to learn to listen to your inner voice. It's that important so you don't miss out on opportunities in life. If I can help with anything else let me know by going to my page and leaving message in my inbox [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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