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moms boyfriend


Question Posted Friday June 7 2013, 2:25 pm

I found out that my moms bf is cheating. on her i don't want to tell her as she proberbly won't believe me cn someone give. me some good advice on what to do thanks

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adviceman49 answered Saturday June 8 2013, 11:23 am:
The best thing for you to do in this type of situation is to do nothing. As you said; mom will probably not believe you anyway or depending on your age feel you are jealous of her.

Just be there for her when she does find out and she will. Be supportive when this happens but don't say anything about knowing he was cheating for then the tables are turned and she will be mad that you didn't tell her. This is a damned if you do damned if you don't situation.

Don't say anything to him either for he will just lie and say you didn't see what you saw or what you heard is untrue. He could then go to your mom and make trouble for you as well. You know what they say about a good defense being a good offense. That would be what he would be doing if he said anything to your mom about anything you might say to him.

I know my advise is hard too take and harder to understand. It is the best advise I can give you that keeps you safe and out of the middle of this. Someone is going to get hurt by this situation and it is best that it not be you.

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