But interest in the opposite sex shows up when kids are 10-13. At that age without any prior experience, there isnt much a guy will do. The most you will notice is
the guy stares at you alot and tries to find excuses to be close to you. He may not speak a word to you because he's shy. Or
the braver ones find a reason to talk to you maybe one random sentence. But not asking you to be his friend or go out.
The only sure fire way to find out if a guy likes you enough to want to spend some time with you is to start talking. How did you know that your girlfriends liked you? Once upon a time, you girls starting talking to each other and talked about stuff you have in common and then invited each other over to your house.
At this, there should be no other pressure. Just friendship with the guy. If you don't know what you have in common, next time he's looking at you, wave him over to you. When he gets there, ask away, like I was going to go bike riding Saturday but my girlfriend can't go and its not fun alone. Do you like to ride bikes and would you like to go with me? Once you break the ice that way, it'll get to be as easy for the two of you talking together and with your friends. If he doesnt respond, the next time you catch a guy staring at you over and over and trying to be near you, wave him over and ask him something. Its like fishing, you have to be patient. Eventually one guy is gonna take the bait and take you up on the offer. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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