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My parents won't let me talk/see my ex boyfriend
I dated my ex off and on for a year! Every time we broke up we would come back to each other after a week or two. I love him so much and we used to sneak out and yes we did have sex a few times but that wasn't why we loved each other. Iv know him for 5 years he is so amazing! He makes me so happy!!but idk if he actually loves me ok when we dated I heard he still flirted with other girls and touched their butts. And he broke up with me for my best friend and had sex with her. But the while time he was dating her he was theathing to beat my new bf up and he was still telling me he loved me but didnt want to hurt her. He finally broke up with her and I made him wait for months till I'd be with him again. My parents found out me and him had sex and then they wouldn't let us be together they put me in home school and took everything it's been almost a year since I seen him we've been talking and he still loves me and we talk bt getting back together when I'm 18 but it's so hard to wait that long I think bt him all the time. I love him!!! But how am I going to wait that long knowing he's goin to date other ppl? I probably will to but ik for a fact I won't feel anything with any other guy iv already tryed but I love him to much. I need help what do I do and do you think he really loves me to? Btw I'm 16 and he's like a few months younger but he's really mature for his age and when we had sex there was no puresser it just happened
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Well you're going to have to respect your parents decision because I'm sure they have your best interest in mind.
I believe you love him, but from just reading this and not knowing the guy, I can't see the love from his side. Guys do confuse lust and love, especially at 16.
Guys that love their girlfriends don't flirt with other girls or touch other girls. They don't leave you for your best friend.
Two years is a long time to wait for someone that you're unsure loves you. Now, if you were 100% certain that he loved you then maybe that wait would be worth it. But if you wait around and by the time you're 18 and he's seeing some other girl, that would have been a big waste of your time.
So your options are..
Go around and disrespect your parents rules and risk getting in more trouble just to get with a guy who you don't know loves you
Wait around for this boy in hopes that he feels the same and it isn't just words and that he'll wait for you too.
Or, move on and find someone you know will love you.
My advice is to move on. You said you have tried but it's not impossible. Getting over someone is hard. It can take weeks, it can take months or even years. Most people who take years are the ones that just wouldn't let go. So don't be that.
If you truly want to start feeling something for someone else, then try harder.
Go out with your friends, don't talk to him anymore, and start doing new things. Break ups are the best time to start finding more things about yourself. It will be really hard to cut contact with him but you're 16, you deserve to be happy and not wait years for a boy who you don't trust.
Everything will get better, just work at it. It will be worth it.
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