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it is actually about my relationship with my bf
My boyfriend and I are sex addict,I sometimes feel like its not LOVE yet I enjoying making love with him.I cannot resist him when it comes to sex and I don't feel reassured.I am jealous of him since we in distance places,I always pull stunts just to get his attention though his fam knows me but I still feel not secured.And I just feel like with my stunts I'm pushing him away,what must I do?
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Psychologists today will not classify sexual addiction in with things like gambling, smoking or drinking addictions because it doesnt fit the same patterns. They aren't sure it's an addiction at all.
There needs to be balance in life. When one part of your life is out of balance with the rest, problems will likely arise If the need to be involved in having sex is so often that it leaves no time for spending time with other friends or family, no time to focus on school, a job or any other part of normal life, then something is wrong. There could be something that you aren't aware of that you may be lacking pschologically that you are automatically using the sex act to try to remedy it. That will not work. In your desire to feed the need and make it be quiet...you go for more sex...is it working for you? Is there something inside you deep down that feels totally content in life, at peace, full of happiness no matter what is going on around you, and willing to show kindness and share love with everyone in your life that you may come across.
Is that how you feel? If not there are signs that can point to what needs to be addressed, and healed inside you. You mentioned feeling jealous and insecure. Unless you can learn to overcome these kinds of feelings, you will find that you will drive men away all life long until it is addressed. It might be good to see a counselor.
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