So i saw this girl at a festival, and she was really cute. She is in another school, and i'll see her at a volleyball tournament, i know how to start a conversation but not how to continue, any advice how to continue a conversation, and what girls like to talk about? something that will make them interested in?
I'm way older so I'll have to think of what my girls had interests in when in school. Girls are interested in how they look and everything that goes along with it. Girls like going to the mall these days, trying things on and then taking pics with their phones to have a memory of it cus they can't afford to buy everything they like. Hair and makeup and nails are part of it. Thats foreign stuff to you unless you have sisters. It would take one brave guy to volunteer to go wandering the mall with her. It might work. If she lingers a bit long over a particular item of clothing, suggest she go try it on and show it off for you. So when she steps out of the dressing room you ooo and ahh over it, Unless to good but you suggest in another color and if one is better than the other, tell her which one you like her in better, maybe it makes her eye color stand out or a certain style makes her look older.
So next, the girls loved sharing with friends quotes from favorite shows or movies. One is into anything Pirate themed, and the other is still into anything fairy themed. Ask if she's interested in any particular fantasy theme such as Pirates, Sci-fi, Anime, or Fairies.
You know what you like so yu can start by asking if she has interest in any of those things.
Find out what genre movies she likes and maybe you can plan to watch a movie at your house or hers or at theater.
Girls are such a pushover for anything cute having to do with pets and animals and are much into sharing cute pics and things that pets do on facebook. Heck even I do. Do you have pets? Ask if she has any. Share any funny things your pet does. If no pets, you might want to go look up some funny pet videos and tell her about them, see if she has seen them. If you can save up a couple of good cute animal pic's or videos to send her by facebook thats a good reason for getting her to accept you as a facebook friend.
Some things are the same for girls as for guys, we all get hungry and need to eat and have favorite foods. Does she like to cook or bake or ever tried to? Some have an interest, some don't. As a teen I was much into baking, cookies brownies. All people have things that make them happy, or sad, or angry. Does she have ideas what she'd like to do for a job someday? Some teens know and others have no clue but plan to figure out later. What about exercise, recreation. Is she into biking, swimming, hiking, jogging, If she has an interest in a area you have never tried and you are willing to try it, let her know. Maybe her family goes hiking and you've never been. Let her know you really want to try that. Would her family be okay with a friend coming along? You get the idea. I hope. Good luck young man. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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