I am 20, I had a crush on a guy and used to look at him always. Mostly it was for fun. He got to know about it and then started giving me the same attention. He always looks confidently at me with a smile, making a strong eye contact and holding it for long, and never misses to look if I'm around. Each time we're face-to-face, he ardently stares at me and keeps looking. These days, two of his best buddies also look at me very often(i'm not interested in them!)
I've never spoken to him as he's in a different stream and we don't have any common friends. He doesn't have a gf & otherwise doesn't flirt/hang around with girls. He's too good looking and I'm just an average-looking girl.
So, is he attracted to me or is doing that just for fun and curiosity?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Dragonflymagic answered Friday May 3 2013, 12:09 pm: Girl, he wouldn't be looking at you if he didn't find you attractive. Come on, do you take the time to keep lookin and starin at the guys who are not attractive to you? Works the same both ways. We are always harsher on ourselves than anyone else. If both his buddies are looking, you definitely have the good looks. All you need is some confidence.
Here's a trick I used. Can't remember where I found it. Find a feature on you maybe your lips, nose, eyes, hair or the whole you and find an actress who has a very similar, lets say eyes. Look at photos if you can find on the net of famous person without the makeup on and hair done. I have. Makes a good amount of them look ordinary enough like me that I dont think I would notice them on the street. I tried the experiment, my eyes I felt looked like an older actresses, Sophia Loren when she was young. I pictured my eyes and my whole self looking like her where ever the ex husband and I went. Total strangers would strike up conversation, seemed drawn to me and then would say, you have the most beautiful eyes. I am not kidding.With the husband there. So borrow some confidence until you have some of your own.
So.. Somebody needs to say Hi first. And then start a real conversation. Do you have brothers, male cousins, uncles, other males you talk to that you are comfortable talking to? Try to remember what conversation with lets say a cousin is.
If you still can't think of a way to start a conversation, heres a funny way to do it, tell the truth. Walk right up to your handsome guy and say, "You've probably noticed that I look at you a lot. I have wanted to meet you and start a conversation but I couldn't think of any way to start the conversation." Then introduce yourself if neither of you know each others name. Ask his buddies if you could borrow their friend for a minute and take a walk away from them. He's more likely to open up and talk without them hanging on every day. Then trade cell numbers, emails and go from there, maybe right then and there make a date to do something together...do you like the roller skate, bowl, watch scary movies, etc..... [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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