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Best friend and old love interest
Around 4 years ago I started talking to a guy a few years older than me, we met up a couple of times and although nothing really happened, I really really liked him. He was the first boy I ever truly liked and I still feel something for him today and think I always will despite having boyfriends since. We were still speaking now and again up and till about 6 months ago when he started talking to my new best friend. (hes spoken to some of my other friends before too) She knows my past with him but she continued to talk to him and he asked her to meet him, I never expected her to want to meet him! But she asked me if I would mind if she did, and of course I did! But I was embarrassed so said it didn't bother me. So she met up with him and they slept together; now she always talks about hum and they always text and I hate hearing about it, I wish I'd said I cared in the first place but I feel like it's too late now. Even though I haven't said I care to her though I still feel as though deep inside she knows I do. I think I'm embarrassed to say anything because I know I dont own him and it's not like we even have a real history, but that doesn't change the way I feel. The thing is. I think she's starting to like him now but i know the kind of guy he is and he'll never get serious with her, should I say something or is it too late?
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You said you want to say something, what exactly did you mean? If you are going to tell her she is never going to be able to get serious with him, like you said, No. You'll just look like you are jealous of the relationship. If you are talking about your feelings for him... I mean it really depends on how good your relationship is with the friend, and what kind of person she is. Because you can tell her but those factors determine what will happen if you tell her. You honestly should have told her from the beginning, even though a good friend wouldn't go there with another friend's ex (sort of ex.. whatever), once you gave her the go ahead, it doesn't matter if she thought you still had feelings for him, you said it was fine. But if you do tell her... be honest, tell her that you lied when you told her before. And what happens from there really depends on her and your friendship. Good luck.
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