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cheated on bf cause i was high with this guy who basically used me
hey, so i have a long distance bf. but for the last few days he has been on this trip n we havent talked much ... n i felt lonely ... but there is this guy who kept on texting me made me laugh n all .. n then invited me to go walk with him .. i agreed n then we ended up going to his room .. i did not have sex with him .. but i was high n i didnt know what i was doing but i ended up making out with him ... n also gave him a handjob .. he basically used me after making me feel special n all through his texts ... n now i feel used up as well as guilty cause i have a bf ... i know i did the rong thing ... n i was probably just sexually frustrated n ended up doing stupid things ... pls help me out m rll confused of how i should be feeling .. !
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Well first off, the fact that you agreed to meet up with a man to go on a "walk" probably wasn't the right answer, even if you boyfriend wasn't gone. Being a formal smoker, I have never done anything that I knew I would regret while I was high, or even drunk. I think it was just the thought of another man giving you attention when you needed it most made you think that the grass might be greener on the other side. You should feel guilty and hurt over this, but at the same time you cannot tear yourself up over it. My advice is to tell your boyfriend because he is going to find out eventually, and if that happens you can kiss your relationship and your reputation goodbye.
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YEs, you probably should be feeling used and guilty.
I'm not sure whether you should tell your boyfriend or not- you should definetly if youre going to be honest, and if you explain it right he might just sulk for a few days and get over it. But dont be surprised if he gets really angry at you over this.
If you dont tell him, it may keep the peace for a few days but you'll feel even guiltier. And then he'll probably find out- they always find out! It'll be worse that way!
As for the guy who used you, well you can tell him to f@*! right off! Unless he was also high, >in which case, he wouldnt know what he was doing either< the fact that he let you do it wasnt nice- but in saying that, you may have led him on with your responses to those texts.
Look at it from their point of view and think what would I want to hear/not want to hear right now?
So good luck with your sticky situation~hope I helped a little.
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