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me and my boyfriend really love eachother but we but we fightall the time i can get mad at him for something like leaving me home alone when his unckle is drunk (witch i have made very clear i have a problem with) and when i go to comfront him about it, it ends up getting flipped to where he is mad at me. idont see how it happens but he always ends up crying his way out of me being mad cuz he freaks out like im the one in the wrong i dont know how i can talk to him!!!! what should i do.its like my feelings just dont matter to him
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It's common for couples to fight. What's harder is finding ways to leave each argument happy and working through it. I really believe communication is the key in any relationship. One thing I have noticed about myself is that when me and my bf are mad and try to work it out, it never works out. We always just get more mad and upset and say things we don't mean. However, if we just let it go until we cool down a bit and talk it through it's fixed magically. It's crazy. So I suggest to talk to your bf when you aren't mad. Bring it up casually and try your best to talk it through. This will work if your bf also is able to talk it through with you. But, if you can do this then I know things will get better. Another thing is you have to let go of the small stuff. Sometimes people have qualities about each other that people hate and couples get to see them full force when they hang out with each other so much. If it's minor (and you have to think about if it's minor) then let it go. Minor things would be him leaving his socks on the floor or not the hamper. Things like that won't kill you. If you let it go then, honestly, you'll just feel less annoyed and stressed. You should also try to make yourself better, because that is what anyone should do really. Offer to stay home sometimes with him when his uncle is drunk? Or take him out to lunch if he's had a rough day with his uncle? You might not know why your bf doesn't like staying home with him (lets be honest though...would you?) but you can try to make it easier on him somehow. Do you best! I hope that helps :)
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