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Im so hopelessly shy


Question Posted Tuesday March 12 2013, 11:24 am

Hello everyone,
just wanted to know how do i demand my worth?
I always end up getting less for my skills and somehow helping foundations and giving for free.
Nothing bad about it, i think i have been charitable enough, its just that i need to stand up and demand for my rate. I have to save up for the future. And i have to start now. But i dont know why i am always shy in dealing with money, rates, and asking price, etc.
I need help phow to overcome this without feeling too arrogant or pushy or swell headed.
I hope someone out there would understand my situation.
Thank you !


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GilbertMar answered Wednesday March 13 2013, 1:08 pm:
It is good to remember to help others and you should continue, it is helpful for the spirit. But you should put boundary's, on it. Place a percentage on it, say 10%, of what you make, your spare time is another thing. If you put a percentage on it, the more money you make, the more you give, see how this changes the dynamics? As to the rest, if you are controlled by the Spirit and not the Animal, you are worrying too much. Be well.

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