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Trying to stop procrastination and become more assertive.
I'm a 22 year old male with a 60 yr old widowed mother. I'm the youngest of five siblings in my family the ages consist of 42,41,40,30 and me(22). I did ok inn school growing up but when my opportunity to play basketball never happened I lost that drive to do anything. I blame myself though for that day. I tried to listen to my oldest brother about college and military I tried both and didn't stay in neither one. I left college because I was frustrated and kept failing the military test so I never found work or anything. I guess you can call me a complete mess. But I really want to change somethings and make myself proud and my mother. Its like mentally I want to do it but when it comes to actually doing something it never happens. So anyone out there with this similar problem and who has gotten out of it and became a success in their lives can you please give me some advice. Also I been trying to find something I would want to goto college for that I enjoy doing which is either video gaming, cooking or music. I want to become a game designer and don't know where to start.
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firstly, well done for recognising that you have a problem with committing to things that could progress your life.
second, with regards to your game designer ambitions, the best place would be to ask around the colleges about the best route for you to take, some course need a specific qualification for you to get in.
personally, i have been where you are. stuck not knowing what to do with my life. but even the simplest change is good for you, i started volunteering at a shop for a few hours a week... this led me to get an NVQ in retail, and management training. i have an actual job now aswell, maybe you could start like i did?
good .luck with it.. stay in touch =) xx
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