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Am i the bad guy?
I lived somewhere for 9 years.(dont wanna reveal myself to the internet)I liked a girl for 4 of those years, i had a friend for a long time( lets call him Albert) then a knew friend came( sam) and i started letting go of Albert. In fourth grade i decided to tell the girl i liked her but i was a wimp. And that same year we moved somewhere else. Those 2 years were what i call "study years." i did well at school and nothing too bad happened to me. Then after those two years i moved somewhere else again(where im living now) and there i fell in love once again. This time i asked her out, she rejected. But there was plan B, another girl, i asked her out.. rejected. And im not even ugly, im actually kinda good to OK looking here. The next year Plan B girl left the school, but Plan A girl was still there, and we were just friends. But i started noticing this girl, which i knew last year since shes a popular girl, but know i have feelings and im making no BIG move but small steps. But sometimes i get so angry that im so useless and no girl ever liked me, as a job i want to be a criminal, like robbing big banks. I dont know what to do with my life, its so boring, and i know a girlfriend could change it all, she could make me happy. What should i do?! Should i just wait and e bored all my life just waiting till im a fully grown man?
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Could it be your outlook on life? "Wanting to be a criminal and robbing banks" doesn't exactly sound like someone with a positive attitude. It could also be the way you approach the situation.
I as a female do not like men who seem to have negetive outlooks. I am attracted to confidence, honesty and dense of humor. (Example) I honestly could care less about looks.
Of course we all have our standards as so do I but 95% reflects on personality.
Another possibility is you may be looking in the wrong areas. You mentioned one girl was popular but the truth is most of the popular people tend to be snotty and concieted. Popularity is just one of them words that's not exactly in the 'reality' dictionary. I am not sure of your age but maybe try looking for girls that don't seem to be aiming for attention? Be open minded to anything. In the meantime I wouldn't focus so much on finding someone I would let it just happen but sgain try setting up a better goal for yourself.
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