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i dont want to be getting involved if the gf is back on the scene... but hes on my mind!!


Question Posted Saturday January 19 2013, 12:08 pm

(20F)
ok, so theres this guy ive been flirty with for a week or so (shane)... he lives in a shared house with my friend and loads of other guys.
we chat on bbm and stuff, but thurs, it got more physical, and we ended up kissing, like, whenever we saw each other.. all day, and we would find each other...
but then thurs night, he bbm's me sayin we cant do anything again because hes back with his ex.and i just replied thats ok.
friday... i get to the house and one of the guys comes to find me and tells me that shane really wants to see me.
i didnt see him because i knew what it would lead to... more kissing. and i dont want to be getting involved if the gf is back on the scene...
now my head is just messed up. i cant stop thinking about him... and just aargh!!
i never fooled myself into thinking it would be more than fun... he isnt the type of guy that i could be with long term. i just dont know how to stop thinking about him! =(


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Brandi_S answered Monday January 21 2013, 5:05 pm:
If he wants to see you, then perhaps it didn't work out with the girlfriend? You should ask him. If he says they're together then steer clear.
If they aren't together, then, well... You're 20 years old, your adult life is still fresh and new. Why not get him out of your system? But always keep in mind that you know for fact that it will never be long term.

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logo08876 answered Saturday January 19 2013, 5:43 pm:
well the most u can do is try theres no shame in that ask him if he has a gf or bf u never now lmao but you have to make sure hes single and likes you back if hes not getting the flkirty signals you been sending then you may have to do is stuyff like get things done tell hiom how you feel if he likes you

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