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Try to get him back?
Okay so I'm a 19 year old female and over time I fell in love with my ex, Drew. I know it's love since I've never felt like this before for anybody. Well over Thanksgiving break we went to our own houses. When we got back he told me he did something bad. At first he wouldn't tell me but when he did I felt like my whole would was falling apart. He told me that over break, he went out to a party and drank a lot. Some girl kissed him, he kissed her back and so on. I was so caught in the moment that I ended it right then and there. a week later, I find out that him and this girl started dating. I still have strong feelings for him and as stupid as it is, I want him back. He flirts with me a lot, and told my friend that he wants to see how long his new relationship lasts but if he didn't have a girlfriend currently, he'd definitely consider taking me back. Should I even try to get him back or should I just try my best to move on? Please help me... I'm stuck.
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Yes, you should move on. Don't be his "backup plan." He moved on plenty fast when you broke up with him. If he truly valued having a relationship with you, he would have made more of an effort to win you back instead of taking up with the new girl. He needs to grow up before he is ready for a serious relationship and, if a serious relationship is what you want, you need to move on and find someone who is ready for that. They are out there, and it's worth the effort to find them.
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