Question Posted Tuesday December 25 2012, 10:59 pm
16/f Three years ago I was sexually abused by my boyfriend. Since then I haven't dated anyone. Over the past four months I have come to really really like this guy. He asked me out the other day and I said yes. Now I feel weird about it. Frightened, awkward... We haven't seen each other since I said yes. And I still feel weird about it. I'm confused and unsure of what to do :/ Thanks for the help ahead of time.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? karenR answered Wednesday December 26 2012, 10:04 pm: As hard as it is just remember he is not the guy who abused you. Give him a chance. Once you feel you can trust him with it, let him know you were abused by a former boyfriend. He needs to know why you will probably get nervous & upset should he try to move things along to fast. You need to take things slow and really get to know him before you take things to that level.
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