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Should I tell a girl how I feel?
I am a junior in college now. Senior year of high school, which was 3 years ago, I had a huge crush in a girl at my school. I really wanted to ask her out to senior prom but I was always shy and I thought she was way to pretty for me and she would say no.
Recently, another friend from high school told me that the girl I liked really liked me too and wanted me to ask her out to senior prom too. I ended up asking my best friend's sister to prom that year. I have been thinking about it a lot lately, and even though it has been almost 3 years I don't know If i should tell her that I actually did like her a lot in high school.
Should I tell her that I liked her too? Should I ask her out on a date? Is it even worth a try? I haven't seen her in a while, but I'm not sure if there may still be a connection.
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Find out if she is with someone or not. That's the most important part. Three years have gone by and there's a chance she may not remember you easily or has completely moved on from who she was or friend's with then.
You confessing how much you liked or still like her may make her uneasy. The best thing you could do is invite her to catch up for coffee or a movie and see if she is receptive and if it works build from there.
It's worth a try for sure but you have to do it subtly like this or she may get scared or blow you off if it comes randomly out of nowhere. There could be a connection but rather than confess all and ask for a date do things this way cause if she says no it will be an indicator before you stick your neck out of what she truly thinks.
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I think you should definitely tell her and ask her out on a date. The worst that can happen is she'll say no, but it's definitely worth a try. You two can catch up and see if you still have a connection.
If she really did like you in high school and wanted you to ask her to senior prom, she'll probably be happy to know that you did like her after all.
Good luck :)
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