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Getting Wet
When I have sex a lot it causes my body to hurt every time we do it.
Like sometimes in certain positions it feels like he is hitting something in there and it feels like a cramp almost. Other times (most of the time) I just cant produce enough natural lubrication.
Dry sex hurts BAD and I don't enjoy it so neither does he. I haven't been having sex with my boyfriend in almost 2 months cuz of this. We tried again recently but it still hurts.
I talked to my dr. and he said to use lube... obviously. We do and we even used one that was suposedly extra good but it still gets too dry and hurts.
Any idea whats going on since all the doctors I go to seem to be clueless. I have a mirena and I was recently diagnosed with hpv. Could these be the cause?
Has anyone else experienced this? I feel like people can just have sex whenever the hell they want. I hate that I have to wait for my body, even if I am crazy horny. Please help!!
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You are right -- dry sex hurts BAD.
But it sounds to me like there are some other things going on here. It sounds like your partner's penis may be hitting your cervix when you experience that cramping sensation. Also, it's possible that your cervix may be inflamed due to a complication from the HPV. The Mirena IUD can also cause pelvic pain at any time. Yeast infections are another *really awful* cause of discomfort during intercourse.
If you are experiencing pain with penetration even while using lots of lube, you may be experiencing vulvadynia (which is basically a fancy word that means pain in your lady-parts). Here's a link for more information: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
The frustrating take-home lesson from the vulvadynia website is that there is no one answer to the problem. But it helps to learn that you're not alone and that there are solutions out there. You just have to keep looking for answers, and find a different gynecologist, if this one isn't taking your pain and concerns seriously.
Here's another idea -- sometimes when a situation isn't right, a person's body will kind of "lock down" and refuse to respond. Even if your brain is thinking "Yeah, let's get it on!" your *body* might be all "Whooaaa, I just found out that I have genital warts! I am totally freaked out!" I'm not saying that this is what's happening with you, but hey, it's a possibility. I'd say give your body a little bit of a break, masturbate if you're feeling crazy horny, and see if your body is trying to send you a message about your boyfriend.
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