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Sorry, I just asked that question about the guy and his intentions and I decided I'm going to elaborate more haha. When I said seeing each other, I meant FWB, but it was obviously more than that. He would act like my boyfriend, take me out in public, invite me out every night, ask me to sleepover.. And I'm almost positive that I was the only girl he was talking to. I think we stopped talking because I wasn't really hanging out with him as much as I used to, and I was sort of being a tease (I would hang out with him and cuddle, but as soon as he tried to do more I would back away. It never seemed to bother him though). I really liked hanging out with him, and I kind of feel like it's my fault things aren't how they used to be, but he is being so confusing! But does the fact that we were more than FWB but less than a relationship change any opinion you had about my other question? Sorry for the back to back questions
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I have no problem with the back to back questions. It helps me answer you better with more knowledge. You know, I think most people start as fwb just to test the other person without jumping into a relationship right away, you know, skip all the shy stuff and get straight to it. But here's the thing, I don't know if you want to have a relationship with him in the future, but if you do, you need to show him. I understand that you want to be a tease because there's no official name to what you have, but if you both continue to progress in the fwb scenario, then you guys will have expectations from another (which is exactly what your question is about). You're starting to have expectations from him, so at this point it's a little more than just fwb. You're now expecting him to talk to you, hang out with you. If you started to pull away from him while the fwb was developing, then he may take it as a sign that you're not into him and either he's doing something wrong or he doesnt know what he wants either. You can't always be a tease whenever he tries to do more because then he gets the impression that you're just into cuddling, and he might want more than that, like you do. (I'm not saying you want a full blown relationship but if you're wondering why he stopped talking to you and things aren't the same, then somethings definitely up). I still hold my same advice that you should eventually talk to him and tell him what's on your mind. It might bring you guys closer together.
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