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What are his intentions?
This guy and I were seeing each other for about a month and a half, then things sort of died down. We wouldn't talk for a few days at a time and stopped hanging out, which was different from our usual texting all day and hanging out once or twice a week. This all happened so suddenly that I'm not sure what is going on. Right when I begin to think it's finally done, he comes back. If I don't text him, he will chat me on facebook randomly like nothing happened. When we text, he stops replying after a couple hours. What confuses me is that this happens almost everyday. I don't get why he would start a conversation with me, only to cut it short. I thought he didn't like me anymore, which is why things slowed down, but the fact that he keeps talking to me makes me wonder. Why does he make an effort to talk to me, then just stop replying? And what are his intentions?
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Wow, that sounds so confusing on his part. I really hate when guys do that. They make you think you're into them one minute and next they leave you hanging. When you say seeing each other, do you know if he was only talking to you? Or did he have other close girl friends? In order to find out what the problem is, or why he was acting like that, you have to ask. But I know you don't want to directly ask him out of the blue. You should continue to talk to him and see if he responds back in the way you expected, if all goes well, try to ask him what happened (if you guys get closer). That way, he won't think of it as alarming or you trying to be clingy. The only bad part is that whatever he tells you, you just have to accept unless you choose to otherwise. Just know that eventually, the truth comes out. As for his intentions, you really won't know that unless you keep talking to him. But even sometimes, that won't help. But if he is an honest guy, then you'll know that he has good intentions and wouldn't do anything to upset you or make you doubt his actions.
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