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decisions: problems with my aunt
i dont understand why my aunt want everything her way she want me to go to this college that she wants me to i want to go to the collge that i want to i mean i got scholarships for 2 colleges that she dont know about i mean i told her about one but she act like i need to do what she say because i live under her roof its just sad,i mean i 17 years old 5 months from being 18 what is it gonna be when i turn 18 is she still gonna try to control me .......its just stupid then im suppose to go see my big sister and her kids in minnestoa so she think its such a bad idea like how is it a bad idea to go see my blood i dont understand this woman... but she complains about everything i do in my life like her kids been to jail and all that crap it seem like she trynna to get extra pratice at being a parent for real i swear im so tired of this stuff. ughhhhhhhhhhhh i dont know what to do i think i should move wiith my sister in minnestoa when i turn 18
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When you turn 18, your life is then your own. Despite what she may try to say or do, you can't let someone else hold you back. If there's a college you do want to go to, go to that one. If you want to live with your sister after you turn 18, do it. Just be sure it's alright with your sister. Your aunt may try to still push her opinions wishes..etc whatever on you, but it's ultimately up to you to decide on what you want to do with your own life. You don't have to tell her right away, but make your own decisions about your life. If it makes her feel bad, it doesn't matter, she'll have to learn she can't control everyone. Whether it's the hard way or the easy way. Go where you want to go. Do what you want to do. It's your life, your choice, be happy!
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